You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. If I wasn't such a fighter and survivor I would have given up on this marriage Sitting here in the afternoon, I happened to google 'being a doctors wife' because it's a lonely day and I wanted to see if its hard for others, too. Love in Different Languages. But actions speak louder than words. No matter that he's married - maybe they can lure him away. But of course this does not mean that mixed religion children cannot grow up to be LDS stalwarts. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. I keep busy with my own activities, but it becomes really hard to have a date night. We also do not allow harassment of those who post about being victims of rape, or who state that they are contemplating suicide.
I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in memories and hearts. Oh well, I'll just pretend she's not mormon and see what happens. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. He was home alone on his one day off while I took off with our kids to visit family states away.
I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. I know residency is particularly bad, but what about when he finishes that. Best wishes on your next expedition. Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. All this actually needs is some stamps, pre-printed envelopes, and a few seconds to dash off a note, kiss the paper, and drop it in a mailbox.
Your crush might put a lampshade on her head and call it innocent fun. Sorry, but it just isn't worth it. Develop Your Own Curriculum.
