There have been times when my pleasure has felt like a burden. I could sense their discomfort when we were intimate with each other and often times, despite my very vocal personality, I did not speak up. My boyfriend eating me out while I was on my period made me confront another one of my insecurities. I have spent so many years hating my period. I got my first period way later than my friends in middle school. I remember one of my friends got her period at 11; I used to be jealous of my friends and their periods until I knew what cramps were. And honestly, I think I hate my cramps more than I do my period itself. In high school, my mom would have to pick me up from school because I would faint from how bad the pain was. At one point, I switched over to tampons to not deal with the blood. Later in my twenties, I became a pro at stopping my period from coming altogether by leaving my NuvaRing in for the past three weeks.
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My boyfriend went down on me while I was on my cycle and made me feel like the queen that I am.
For guys, though, getting head is pretty much a straightforward thing. Men, by and large, seem to love receiving blowjobs. For women, there are so many factors that come into play when it comes to being eaten out. First of all, being eaten out puts a woman in a very vulnerable position. Her legs are spread out and apart, and her partner is kneeling down on her. So as she lays down, spreads her legs, and waits for the guy to make contact, a lot of questions are racing through her mind:. However, there could still be a little bit of first-timer anxiety. Once you make contact with her genitalia, either with your lips, tongue, hands, or everything all at once, the feeling is close to indescribable.
For future reference, men of the world, I only want one thing, and that is your tongue on my clitoris. Orgasms are awesome in general because they make you feel like a beautiful woman, and being eaten out is also like that because guys who are good at it usually really appreciate vaginas. Emphasis on no sucking. All women deserve to get eaten out like there's no tomorrow.
We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article. An essay posted on the sex blog How To Make Me Come has given some very, very specific and expert tips to those heading south with their mouth and wanting to know how to lick a woman or person with a vagina out. So naturally, we thought it important to flag up for anyone who might need a little hint. PSA: these magical tips are relevant for anyone with a vulva, not just women as the post's title implies. So fill your boots! Step 1: Make your way south of the border. You may guide this path with small kisses from their neck down to their pelvic region. You made it!